Guides and tips
How to choose a butterfly vibrator
Compare wing shape, dimensions, power, and controls to narrow down the collection.
Start with shape and size
A butterfly-style vibrator usually combines a shaft with a winged or fluttering outer arm. Check insertable length and diameter separately from overall length. Look at where the arm sits relative to the shaft, since two models with similar overall dimensions can fit differently.
Compare broad wings and focused tips
Wide wings, such as those on the Butterfly Kiss Flutter, give you a broader contact area. A narrower outer tip, such as the one on the Butterfly Kiss Flicker, concentrates contact in a smaller area. The retailer photos help show the difference.
Check how the controls work
A model with separate controls lets you adjust the shaft and outer arm independently. The Come Hither G-Kiss Butterfly and Dual Stim Butterfly have that feature. If you prefer a simpler layout, compare models with one main button.
Decide between batteries and charging
Check the listed power source and whether the charger or batteries are included. Start with the Butterfly Kiss model guide if you want a side-by-side comparison.